In traditional business or in the corporate world it is very competitive. People would pull others down for them to get higher on the ladder. Back when I ran my own business in network marketing and also teaching yoga I found it very hard to look at other successful leaders in the same or similar industry and take inspiration rather than competing.
When I joined my current business I brought this mindset along with me, which really didn’t serve me. I spent my time looking at what others were achieving and getting annoyed and upset because they had achieved better than me even though I had been here longer.
This is not the way to achieve success – sitting in my own pity party and focusing on what others are doing is not a success strategy. I have since learned that I can look at what others are doing and use it as inspiration without actually having to compare myself and maybe feel bad about not having achieved something yet. They are showing me the way and their example shows me how much more possible it is for me to achieve the same if not better. This mindset is so much more powerful and in alignment with creating success.
I know most people feel the same way but a little adjustment in our thinking can bring about a huge attitude change and with that different results. I found that since I started to pay attention to my thoughts and how I feel and react to things, I was truly able to change my results for the better and feel that the speed in how I create results has sped up also.
We are all unique and bring certain traits to the work place may it be your job or your own business, so why would be expect to have the same journey like others?
Have you ever been in the comparing phase?
If you have and it got you the wrong results…you definitely should consider coaching. Why? So you can change your mindset, your inner blueprint how you think and learn how to control negative thoughts once they arise and change them to positive to Create the results you want in life and actually feel ok in your skin.
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Zig Ziglar said: “You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want.”
Peace, Love and Abundance